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08-Sep-2017 20:11 by 5 Comments

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But in the real world, people dive right into newcomer relationships.

There is nothing worse than awkwardly sitting across the meeting from somebody (or several somebodies—let’s be honest) who’ve seen you naked.In case you’re bad at math, this means I’ve spent half my recovery single and dating and the other half with the same person. I’m not saying I’m a great partner every day or some kind of expert, but I’ve learned a few things.I’m happier today than I’ve ever been and I’m committed to staying that way—one day at a time.Early on, each time I started dating somebody new, I would get caught up in the rush of it.My addict mind would be all, “Oh my gawd, he’s the one I’ve been waiting for all my life.” I had a string of mediocre boyfriends the first three years. We started planning a wedding before he stole my car, went on a crack binge and never came back.Part of the fun of being with somebody who’s also in recovery is sharing the lifestyle—going to meetings together, having a date for events who , talking shit together about people.

But it’s important to have your own support group, your own regular meetings and some recovery activities that are off limits to your partner.

Heck I even shared my own personal adventure which is one of those crazy relationship things. Maybe some night when I suddenly wake up at AM, my committee will have an emergency session where we can bring this matter up. Lordy all the stories of ex-wives and husbands and new husbands and wives, and boyfriends and girlfriends getting together and comparing notes - then they get together and play cards on Friday nights.

But you know my friends, I am willing to go to any length to get what you have, but there might be some things you have that I might not be all that happy to get.

Starting a new relationship before you work your fourth step is like showing up for your first date wearing a hot new outfit but really dirty underwear.

Without taking the time to inventory those attitudes and behaviors that have held you back in the past, you’re only clean on the outside.

It took years of bad decisions, heartbreak and, ultimately, hard work on myself before I was relationship material.

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