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Unlike people who court the media, you have way more control over your image than you give yourself credit for.You cannot control everyone else’s minds– people like thinking about themselves!
Or if you keep going back in no matter how crappy a capacity, to a poor or even non-existent relationship, you’re trying to get them to retract the rejection.You’re not Siamese twins or linked on an influence index.You managed to survive on this planet for however many years before they came along– there’s no way in hell that you should hand over the rights to your identity.This retraction you’re seeking is not going to cause the heavens to open, angels to sing, and for the presses around the world to whir into emergency action as they notify ‘everyone’ of the ‘correction’. Hang on in there being nice while they engage in open and shut cases of assholery just so you can prove that you’re the bigger person?No announcement will go out, no billboards, no nothing. Just like I know that I hadn’t moved away to another country and that while I had my own issues, I was certainly not to blame for the entire failure of the relationship, hence I couldn’t take the end of the relationship as a rejection of me, you are more than capable of figuring out what’s what and telling yourself the truth.While of course there are a portion of people who won’t believe what was published or even hold the false perception, they seek the retraction and even sue for damages because they believe that there has been tangible damage for any people who do believe.
It may cost them credibility, cause problems with their family and friends, affect the brand, or even company profits.On top of this, if it’s anything like your typical correction in a newspaper, it will be the equivalent of a postage stamp sized space wedged in between a whole load of other stuff. Hold them hostage and force them to change their version of events? That and half the time, all of these other people who we worry are going to be affected, don’t even matter.Yes you’ll know it’s there, yes you will have achieved your aim, but it’s really all for your own ego and if your purpose is to assuage your ego, you’ll actually be better off doing it yourself. As many people can attest to, often after getting the holy grail of apologies, or telling them about themselves, or even ‘winning’ them back– it’s a major anticlimax. I’d phone him up and ask him why he hadn’t been in touch with me, tie myself up in knots about the lies he might be thinking and even worse, the lies I knew he was spreading – he told people that we’d broken up because I wanted to move away to America. These people will soon figure out the truth when your ex keeps claiming that Yet Another Ex is a “psycho” or “too demanding”, or they keep trotting out the same reason for each breakup.Also, often, what you’re trying to get them to retract is your own perception of you – I know I’m not the only person who has corrected an ex, only to get the blank stare or the reaction.Stop giving away all of your power and putting it all on Mr/Miss Unavailable (or whoever it is) to ‘retract’ the rejection.Developed in 2002 and evolving from humble origins, Adult Match Maker (AMM) was the first Australian owned and run adult dating platform for men, women, swinging couples and transgender members, looking for love and often something a little naughtier.