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How would men on Tinder treat someone who told them upfront she had a boyfriend?
That leaves today's relationship seeker with few options other than to look online.It totally makes sense – more options, even if they’re not all 100% what you want, equal more hookup opportunities for guys, while for girls, fewer matches mean fewer creeps texting you at 2 a.m. It’s not a super significant number – and really, I had almost three times as many matches, which is totally what should have happened according to those Times statistics – but it gets bad when you look at the messages. I don’t want to start our look through the messages on a totally negative note.In order to get more results, and maybe a message for Doug, we kept our profiles going for a month, each day swiping right on another 20 people. Seriously, #notallmen (rolling my eyes, you can too) on Tinder were terrible to me. Oh, and of course, there are men that don’t read your profile and just want pictures of your tits. From the very first message, guys I am hoping did not read my profile invited me over to chill out, watch a movie and let them completely dominate me.Since I’ve been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend Doug for nearly two years now, Tinder has never been necessary to me.Still, I’ve always found it curious how the app has the tagline “It’s How People Meet,” so different from other dating apps, which put the focus on love and connection and building relationships.We were not trying to trap people or be dishonest; really, I just wanted to see if girls are ever able to exist on a place like Tinder without being harassed.
Not too much to ask from a site that’s created for meeting new people, right?
This is a perfect example of the way girls get treated almost anywhere on the internet – no matter what we say, guys expect us to owe them conversation. And then, he got two messages from sex workers using the platform to find clients. I suppose just that Tinder really isn’t a place to connect and make new friends. But the way Tinder markets itself as a space for everyone to meet new people made us think that hey, maybe we both won’t get people offering to have sex with us since we said we weren’t interested.
Nobody ever messaged Doug or me saying anything along the lines of “Hey, I read your profile, respect that you are in a relationship and would love to hand out and hear more with you in a friendship way! Friendship never was brought up with any of his or my matches. Not the case – I’d say nine times out of ten, the people offering/asking for sex did not even glance at anything further than our pictures.
Some were really nice and supportive of me being on the site for unnamed research. Like this guy that hated/wanted me so much, he just couldn’t let it go (if you look closely, you’ll see these messages were sent over several days). Guys started the conversation asking if I was into ass play.
Some even allowed me to exist on a social space without talking to them! Out of the 125 messages I received, about 40 asked me what my research was about. And then he decided that I was a slut for not answering him. Someone wondered if I was into spanking and hair-pulling.
It made him feel a little bad, I think, seeing that if we ever broke up and had to use this app for real, I’d get way more immediate action than he could expect.