Your beauty is intimidating

13-Nov-2017 13:13 by 7 Comments

Your beauty is intimidating

There is no reason why you should try to force yourself to be someone you’re not in order to meet somebody else’s criteria.Now, that having been said: you want to consider toning down your behavior somewhat. Some women, especially women with strong opinions and a willingness to express them, can seem angry or stand-offish to guys.

Similarly, tone of voice, facial expression and body language can completely transform the tenor of a conversation.I conducted an informal (and utterly unscientific) poll on the Dr.Nerd Love Facebook Page, trying to get a handle on what guys mean. So let’s take a look at what men say is intimidating… Men can find beauty intimidating; the more attractive the woman, the more advantages society gives her.Showing genuine interest or honest appreciation in his accomplishments or hobbies can also help him overcome feelings of “What could she possibly see in me?” And I do mean genuine; shy, geeky guys are perpetually concerned that people are secretly making fun of them.If he doesn’t have the self-esteem or confidence to get past the power differential – and beauty looking for someone better.

Geek culture has a way of blurring the traditional lines of gender roles.A shy guy, even one who wishes women would be more assertive and take the initiative, can have a low threshold when it comes to directness and energy.Similarly, if a man is interested in a woman who’s more in line with the idea of more traditionally feminine or lady-like behavior, he isn’t going to make for a good boyfriend for an outgoing, dominant or non-traditional lady. And don’t get me wrong, this isn’t someone looking for geeky attention or a propped up fantasy. But “intimidating” is almost uselessly vague, especially if they keeps coming up; it covers a multitude of meanings to the point that it means everything and nothing at once. She has a job she loves that pays good money, money that she likes to spend on her geeky hobbies and toys. – she hears the same thing over and over again: “You’re too intimidating…” Does this sound familiar to you? In fact, going by the number of emails I get from my readers, it’s most common issue that geek (or geek-curious) women encounter when they’re interested in dating.The more beautiful or desirable a woman, the more she can have her pick of men.